A Hindu ritual of worshipping a God is called pooja. People used to recite Bhajans which is meant for worshiping a God in musical way and at the end they ask their wish to fulfill and take blessings from elders.
People in India strongly follow their culture and always take a stand against anything goes to against their culture. Love marriage is one of the things that go against their cultures. In India, it is believed that if bride and groom are belong to different cultures then it would be difficult to make adjustment with each other, which could lead to a misunderstanding or differences between them or divorce. But still there are many couples who believe that adjustment could be made if couple belongs to different culture have a proper understanding.
Still there are some people in India who are willing to get married with the desired partner no matters from which culture he or she belongs to. Those couples must perform puja for love marriage to get together with the desired partner for a life time.
Love Marriage
Couples who fall in love with each other always desire to spend their life with each other for a life time. Only marriage is the option to make them stay together. Marriage of two individuals who are in love with each other and have committed to each other based upon the mutual decision taken without consulting any family members or parents is a love marriage.
In some cultures, early marriages are performed and to avoid that some love couples perform early love marriage which is the only option left for them if they are failed to convince their parents. Since, some couples are failed to perform early love marriage then they need to perform puja for early love marriage to let spiritual forces of God to work for their fate.
Efforts for convincing parents
In order to retain the reputation in the society some parents did not allow any love couple to get married if they belong to different castes or religion or culture. These kinds of parents feel privilege to follow the footsteps of their forefathers or ancestors. So, it is hard to convince them about love marriage. Many couples put their every kind of efforts to convince them. If they are agreed then well and good else couple performs puja to convince parents for love marriage. By making these efforts you can show your parents your eagerness and love towards your desired life partner, which can make their heart melts and also make their decision to change. If you have performed the pooja to convince parents for love marriage with pure heart then you will get your parents blessings and permission to spend your life with the one to whom you love the most.
If any young couples come to know the story of a successful love marriage with blessings of the parents then they have the reason to show their parents that love marriage is not failure.
